Reasons why I stopped carrying people through duos, alerts, and even raids

In the first scenario, there's no way to tell whether that player was trying to be carried. I can understand even a good player resigning to the fate of not hitting anything with three over-geared players. I often feel that way myself when I run. I still try to see how much I can contribute, but it can be a bit frustrating when I'm lunging thin air or throwing powers at thin air because the enemy I targeted was taken down before I could react.

For the second case, I run into that a lot. I just do my thing and not worry about the other player. I keep an eye on chat in case the seemingly new player asks questions or wants advice, but I have stopped providing unsolicited advice, and I don't like abandoning other players who don't know any better. I just hope they will eventually realize their shortcomings and ask someone for help learning to get stronger somewhere along the way.

I think he chose to do nothing because of the word he used on the moment and he didn't take it bad with the congradulation he even sait thanks i know
So on the moment i was thinking that he did that cause he would be useless amyway

For the other i think he wasn't reading the chat cause he didn't responce or used my advice