just killed a couple mobs while in raid, didn't get any exp message, only 2 ppl touched the mob, both next to the mob and no loot popup either...
Well, you'd have to be a hell of a lot more specific to say that is true. First, there is no guarantee any given mob will drop anything . . . so not seeing the loot window pop-up is not uncommon. As far as the experience message . . . if the mob was a grey con, you won't get any. Given the limited information in your posts, there is no reason to assume anything is wrong here.
Guys they have a place for this kind of chat! https://forums.daybreakgames.com/eq/index.php?threads/live-update-bugs-10-24-2018.252025/
well it's in FM, they are NOT grey and they have so much trash loot so after the mobs we killed something should have dropped + we should 100% sure have gotten exp... this bug seems to happen to ppl NOT in grps but IN raid.
For the few kills I did, everything looked sane with the xp and faction hit messages. I don't know if I actually gained any though.
Either u needed to relog the toon in question or you were experiencing a ui bug. Happens even on the default ui. Keep killing for like 30 mins and you'll eventually notice it move if you keep killing mobs at a decent pace.