Botting has been in EQ2 since its conception, and it will continue to be in MMOs long after EQ2 is gone. I think the attitude of "it doesn't affect me", is more about pick and choose your battles. Botting instanced raids has a very small impact on the server, vs. botting in crafting / harvesting/ contested quest mobs etc. If it does bother you, screen shot it and report it. Otherwise, move on.