I've been playing EQ for several months now and have made it to level 90, playing 99% solo. While leveling to 90, I did an pet-based AA build. Once I made 90, I respecced to a more group friendly build. After respeccing, I've found that casting 1-2 spells (ie soulrot, lifetap, etc) I take aggro from my pet everytime. I've also had problems aggro management problems in groups. I have master level pets, and I'm geared 80% legendary/20% T2 fabled. I also have a -10% hate mod which doesnt seem to help at all, and also use bewilderment. Any ideas on how I can better manage aggro solo and in groups, other than standing around looking stupider than usual?