You making odd choices doesn't change anything about the spells. Using Force of Timorous over Crush of Timorous when crush does literally 2x the hate, I just don't know what to tell you. I mean, other than jopals in stratos and birds in alishai (mearatas is an outlier as due to banes the spell set is completely different as long as you aren't tanking the boss), what do you need actual stuns for? Crush of E'ci is cripped only by its recast timer. If you have the spell gems for 3 direct hate stun/crushes, it should be used.