When I am given it, the trade is cancelled, due to be duplicate lore item. When I use find item, I cannot see that I should have it. Is the lore on it, mixxed on some other item ?
Also, it could be you deposited it in a plot for which you are not the owner (that won't show up on /findi unfortunately). Alternatively, check /itemoverflow . . . there were some wonky item/housing issues in recent days.