I don't know why or how I got it to be my real name but is there any way I can get it changed please?
I would start a new account and use it to post. This section is for help from other players, not sure they will respond here or not. Probably a petition is the best idea, but due to the traffic right now it might not happen for a while.
yes you can. https://www.everquest.com/home Log into your normal acct ACCOUNT MANAGEMENT ACCOUNT INFO Daybreak Handle:(public name) Optional
My Handle names are always read only once set, and can't be updated. Seems that way for this account as well. Is there a way to change that?
no idea , contact a admin peep? you suggestion of Create a new FTP acct and use it to post might be a better work around?