Unpopular Opinion

Well....you aren't wrong lol

Yet your actively advocating they dont play the way they and play the way you want…….
As far as adding me to dps for ya, yes.
Along the way you made the argument that when tanks do this, adds get left behind etc and something to the effect of everyone must run along and ignore adds (paraphrasing not quoting).
To that i said add me to dps with you and i will show you a good dps can prevent everything you said happens from happening. Burn is a factor here. If u have a bad group and a bad tank then yea, tank will leave straggler when they try this and the group wont be able to handle said stragglers.
To me that points to a larger issue in the group. Its not the tank alone, the whole group is deficient.

Add me and get a runner tank. Bring any 2 other but not a dps. I will solo and show you that adds die far to fast to be an issue and the tank leaving them behind causes no issue or slowing of the instance.
If i can handle it solo (and im not a dps God or anything, im just pretty darn good) then surely the tank leaving a straggler here an there for 2-3 dps’s isint an issue unless your group (and maybe yourself are just that bad).

I wish lots of people and roles played the way i wanted too, i get it.
Know why i dont make threads about it? Its none of my business is why. To each his own. I will PM, offer help, message the group etc if need be but im not gonna expect anyone to what i want because of reasons.