On x1 I have 29/50 overall 10 done as male. 11 done as female. Granted I'm turrible at math, but even if can tell that doesn't equal 29 I haven't gone through the individual family stats to see what they equal to, but a quick glance shows they don't come close. And I ALWAYS wait for the scorecard to come up before I leave to make sure it's counted
There were also times in the past where new Legends and new skins for Legends (bombshells, for example) didn't count for the family and gender feats right away. So that might make the overall counter higher than the other feats.