I Quit...

So you get mad at the community for abusive behaviour then come into the forums and start insulting people? Methinks the toon doth protest too much.

OP already sent me all of his stuff.


You can have the stacks of simple material he sent me.

I'll pass. But thanks.

Me too.

I'm not sure what or how but this comment somehow made my day

Leagues can be just as bad, and fyi the players in the good leagues usually are the biggest DB. The leagues make'em that way, I've known really cool players before they joined some of these league, and after they joined they turned into DB

Lmao have anyone seen her commercials? They are just as funny

Your quitting because of other people?
Just turn the volume down to ignore them or join a league.

I the real world though people are more civil than in game-worlds. Maybe it's because there's a disproportionate number of asshats in game world or maybe it's because in real life people have the added incentive of keeping their teeth.

you dont know the real world were im from that will get you killed dont worry we dont talk on this side you might end up on 1st48

Such is life OP.

Don't let it drag you down you should never let people have that kind of control over you.

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I'm sure you've heard all of this before - OP.....but, what the heck....

I understand you are upset - BUT - You have NO control over how others act and feel, as their behavior (good / bad) well...that is on them ALONE!

By the Same Token, you shouldn't let others run you away. In doing so, you end up doing yourself more harm than good, just by giving that person, - (person(s) or, group) - that much power over YOU! Because, it is YOU that is being "cheated" out of something, NOT Them!

However, easier said than done I imagine, as I guess you will have to come to terms with this statement on by your own - time, place and means.

In the meantime - Consider doing the solo stuff - challenge yourself by taking on a Duo, Alert, or, dare I say, Raid instance by yourself. I do this all the time, it is amazing what little nuances you can discover when you are alone and not pressured by being in a group. Besides, you keep all the LOOT

You said you've already found a few "Nice people" - if that's the case - they should be on your friends list and try to do more stuff with them.

IMHO...
Good Luck

can i have your character ?

I've thought about this, perhaps a little more than I should. It's because we can't see each other's faces. The literally thousands of microtells that go on in someone's face trigger the empathy parts of the brain. If we say something mean to someone in real life, our brain kicks in and goes "whoa, that's not very nice". We don't like that feeling of guilt. Without seeing those microtells our brain can't process that our words are hurting someone's feelings, so we don't have the empathy triggers. No trigger pulled, no feeling bad.

Perhaps you just needed a break. Why quit when you can drop back minimize your time on the game. Find other avenues to get good vibes. When you are around negative people it brings you down. Find what you need and come back later.

Been there myself and deleted all my alts and just focused on my main and did the missions I wanted. Ignored the people giving me grief. I have come back and while limited playing time I am in a better place.

Success in whatever you decide.

i just left a nexus raid. jumped in at the split. wasn't even there five minutes. one of the very loud dps felt the need to take it upon himself to direct me while declaring himself a god to the group.

no.

just no.

Please send them to me, Rooney, one piece per mail. I'll also gladly take any snowballs off of your hands, also one per mail.

Thanks,
Rooney

So you know what they say about quitters, and those that are not part of the solution?

Then again, I don't listen to the chat nor do I read shout in metro or Gotham where it's just /ignore over and over. So good luck to you.

lol i just made a thread about this topic

https://forums.station.sony.com/dcu...ly-what-has-happened-to-the-community.186894/

Apprently though its just me thats having issues with the community

Take a break bud , maybe try back in a few months and things will be better.

If not and your mind is made up , good luck and do what you feel is right for your gaming life!!

If your on EUPC and need help/advice give me a shout!

You gotta find a league and friends. Ignore the crazies they are everywhere.