You're cosplaying a villain very well lol. I can see that. You have people like that, but theres also lovely people like you who are more enjoyable to play with. Although discord is tight, ps4 players are not going to go all they way through that (unless ps5 hurry up and adds discord as a service already). At the end, you have to play it by ear and read the room. Some groups are solid, some groups are deform.